If you ask the question as to hint a guy that you want to marry him , then you really feel him serious and intense feelings . Every girl should understand that marry can only seriously obmirkuvavshy decision and weighing all the "pros" and " cons". Of course, every lady would like to wear a white dress and be a princess at least for one day.
Yet we must understand that this important step not do for one of the festive day. And it is necessary to understand not only you, but also the child.
If you would like to be married to bind him to her and convinced that the young man is not going anywhere - you can disappoint . Get married, it does not mean to get a sense of loyalty and man. How could you not like that , but man can not buy , make or bind . Even if such a circumstances where it can not just drop a hint as to say openly that he has to marry you , then, even with the consent , you can not get love and hate. Guy is a burden to be next to you and the relationship will turn at the performance of duty. Over time, it can not just drop a hint , if not openly that , in fact, you do not need it , and he did as was supposed . So if you want to marry a guy and be really happy, honestly answer the question, your relationship is so strong and serious? If you yourself can not answer this question for himself , and for the young man , try to hint a guy , make him a discreet conversation and find out what he thinks about the legalization relationship.
Still, back to the question : how to hint to a guy that you wanted to marry him ? Suppose you see that he really loves you and wants to live together for life . Then , you need to understand why he has not yet started talking about marriage. More often than not , the answer to this question lies on the surface and it is confined to the material . Many men do not venture to such a serious step because they think I am not able to provide the woman he loved all those things she could wish for , because it is too early to offer her his hand and heart. Admit it , because in their own way these young people are absolutely right. It is only in the movies can be a paradise in a tent . And , in fact, a domestic and financial problems are often broken , even the strongest love. So you need to think about is whether you can endure hardships , to accept the fact that much is not available to you , and still love and understand her young husband. If you even are not sure - then do not rush to marriage. If you love one another stamp in the passport can wait a few more years. So wait until you both stand on your feet , begin to earn enough to provide it to her family life you always dreamed about .
If you realize that really can not ignore the financial problems , and the most important is for you to be close to the road man, then talk to him about it . Do not start the conversation by asking the question directly : you do not want to get married, because we have no money ? Better to just talk to him about that for many couples is very important to have the opportunity to live a beautiful and a good rest , and if not, then the pair, respectively , too. But for you, these things are not important. No, of course you would like to live nicely , but I think that initially survive hardship - this is normal for any young couple. Just need to work together to support each other, and then soon everything will be exactly as we dream . The main thing - is to be together , to be husband and wife.
Such a conversation must act on the individual. It will make its findings and realize that you really do not cease to love him , if you do not get the material wealth that would be . If you can bring it to the young man , chances are he soon will make you an offer - and you begin your married life .
What could be the reasons for that guy pulled out a marriage proposal ? In fact, they are not so little. For example , the guy feels he is still quite infantile , so afraid to associate themselves with something serious and long-term. What to do then? First , it would be realistically analyze your relationship and figure out whether it is worth while to marry this man . Of course, love - a very strong sense , but it pales in time when you realize that your husband can not completely rely on, because he never grew up , so did not want and can not be responsible for their words and deeds. In fact, this guy is getting harder and harder every year. If you realize that still does not want and can not live without it , then you have two options: get him to change or convince you that is ready to take on all the problems that you may live in a marriage.
How can I fix guy? Of course, this is not easy because people have long been accustomed to live as independently change anything one wants. It can be a trump card of his love for you . If you know this guy really loves , put the question bluntly: either it behaves like a normal adult male , or you are headed. It should not just say it , but also specifically explained the boy , as he was wrong, and correct as necessary . You must behave in a way that young people realize that if he is in the near future will not do anything , then you really have to say goodbye.
If you are not sure of his feelings, but to live without it or not, then we can only prove that you can and you will be likely to take , and it needs to be around. Rather, infantile young man quite satisfied with this convenient option , that's just a perpetual fidelity and true love there is little hope . Of course , this option can not be called the best and most appropriate , but every woman has the right to itself to decide how to live her life than sacrifice and why .
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